when we throw the 4th july party we just provide everything. that way all the stuff i want i have. the guests just have to bring fireworks. easy. i get all the great food and drink i want. sparky's rules at sparky's house (as long has the wife is not home).
Just yesterday I had a guy telling me how good his ribs were boiled then thrown on his gasser with some sauce. He was a customer, so I just listened... and cringed!